The circle of life

Back when I was still on fb.  I looked up some of my investigators from my mission days.  One in particular who was a golden contact, who we had the privilege to teach and had joined the church, I found but I never heard back from him. When I cancelled my account I figured there went my chance to ever get in touch with him.  Well, on Tuesday I recieved an email from this young man ( not so young anymore) and I was so excited!  But I couldn't figure out how he got my email, so I asked him.  He said he searched for me and somehow found my blog and got my email address here.  Well, he called me yesterday and we talked for about an hour! Denis was and is still golden and going and growing strong in the gospel.  His oldest son, Bryce, is on a mission and entered the MTC one week after Michael.  So, they were in the MTC together.  So awesome!
We had a great conversation about his conversion 25 years ago and what a wonderful experience it was for both of us.  Denis truly was a golden contact!  He served a mission in So. California and met his wife there.  Another Elder who was from California and I visited him on his mission after we came home.  We were both blown away by his studies of the scriptures, I'll never forget that.  He has since married had 3 children and served in many leadership callings including serving as the ym president and as a member of the bishopric.  Today he serves on the High Council of his Stake.

Wow...the circle of life is a wonderul thing!

p.s. about a week ago I almost removed my email address from my blog....so glad I didn't!

Egytian Ratscrew and other fun games!

  
http://www.waste.org/~oxymoron/cards/ratscrew.html (go here to get instructions)

It's been since I think February that our TV decided to stop working and we decided we didnt really need it anyway. There was always a baseball game or something else going on and really, what is worth watching on TV these days anyway? We do have a small tv that we use to watch dvd's on, but since summer started the kids have been watching some dvd's during the day so we've been trying to stay away from them at night.

So, we've been doing a lot of this!  And boy, oh boy are we having fun!  We learned a couple of very fun card games this spring one is called Egyptian Ratscrew

and the other is Nertz and now we are hooked!  Both are very fun games!  Another very fun game is things

http://www.thingsthegame.com/  check it out! 

A family that plays together stays together....right??

A bit heavy....

We were a bit stunned by Michael's email this past week as he told the story of the boy's father who thought that their family dog had attacked and killed his son, so he took the dog out into the woods and "put it down" and then came back to find that the dog had attacked and killed a bear that was trying to attack the son, that the dog was actually trying to protect the son.

(You can go to my blog list and visit Elder Nelson's blog to read the whole story.)  Anyway, Stephen and I had a difficult time understanding the message behind that story.  The speaker who told the story was talking about the youth and parents and how sometimes the youth think that their parents are too harsh or cruel.  When they are just trying to protect them. It was interesting to me that Mike got the message right away and that it had such a huge impact on Michael.  If you knew the relationship between the 2 of them you would understand.  Michael has always been a sensitive young man.  We were always very close, afterall he was our first child and it was just Michael for 5 years before we had Stephen.  But coming from the background that I did I was always very protective of him and his feelings.  Mike on the otherhand came from a very different background and his expectations of his sons is high, his patience is long and his determination strong.  I am grateful for this, but when Michael was growing up he often mistook Mike's expectations as being too high and his discipline as being too strict.  In fact it wasnt long before Michael left on his mission when he just started to understand that his Dad was just being a good Dad. I on the other hand, tend to be too lenient and too much of a pushover.  It took me a while to see and then help Michael understand that his Dad isnt trying to be mean but that he is trying to teach him to be the best young man that he can be.  Well, it is so nice to read Michael's letters and to see how Michael now gets it.  He is so much of who he is today because his Dad loves him, pushed him and didnt let him settle for mediocrity.

Michael mentioned as a side note to me that he thought maybe his email was "a bit heavy", but that he felt it was important to mention.  I am so thankful for missions and the many experiences that Michael is having that are helping him (and me) to grow in areas that are helping him to be the person that Heavenly Father knows he can be.  He'll be a great Dad someday.

What if?

It's Sunday yay!  I woke up this morning thinking "what if?"  Not that this is the first time I have ever asked myself that question...but this morning a different thought came to mind when I asked myself that question.  I usually think...there is no what if...things are how they are and were always supposed to be.  But this morning the thought came to my mind that it all depends on our choices.  Now, it's not that I dont know that our choices make a difference as to what happens in our lives, it is just that it has never quite hit me the way it did this morning.

I thought about the Plan of Salvation and how simple it really is.  It is us that complicates it by some of our choices. We make life hard for ourselves at times, or at least harder than it has to be.  Yes, we all have our  agency and we will ALL have trials in our lives, however, so much of what we go thru we could probably avoid if we made different choices.  But the great part about it all is that no matter what we do, no matter what choices we make or how many stupid choices we make, the plan of salvation provides for us a way to start over and still receive all the blessings that our Heavenly Father has promised to those who are faithful.

So, "what if"....well, who cares?  It is what is it is and we just keep on going from here.  Today I am thankful for the Plan of Salvation and for my agency to choose how difficult I want to make life for myself because it is really so simple.  Just have faith, be obedient and believe.

What if I didnt have the gospel in my life....now that is a very different story!

Enjoy your Sunday!

Did you know?

Besides being with my family, this has got to be my favorite place on earth!

Did you know that you no longer have to make an appointment to attend during the week?  They only take appointments on Friday and Saturday now.  Yay!  Last night was such a nice visit and just what I needed to clear my head and give me strength. On my way home I got a call from a very dear friend that I havent heard from in ages....and it just topped off a great night for me. ( Love you Christin! ) 

I am very blessed!

Just a little prayer

In 2008 when Mike first lost his job and we didnt know if we would be able to keep our home, I really thought I would lose it.  I had already thought up my reaction in my head and it wasnt good.  Then when it actually happened and we did lose our home, I was surprised that all I could think about were all of our blessings.  Everything that was really important in our lives was already in place and I knew that this was just a trial.  However, trials can really work your patience at times.  And ours is being tried.  Although Mike was able to find temporary work that we could get by on, he has not worked consistently for the past 3 weeks and this week he has not worked at all so far. 

Do you ever feel like you are going thru the refiners fire?  Well, that is how I feel these days.  The Lord loves us too much to not try our faith that we may have the opportunity to grow.  Lately all I can think about is what I am not doing and should be doing.  I have become increasingly aware of my faults and short comings.  Almost to the point that I hate to ask the Lord for anything.  But I know that "all these things shall give thee experience and shall be for our good".  I also know that "tribulations bring about patience and patience experience and experience hope", so today I have hope.  And so I am asking and hoping that today you will say a little prayer in our behalf  that Mike will find a good job soon...according to the Lord's will of course...his may be very different than ours.

Just a little prayer?
Thank you,

The Fantastic Finks

Here I am with my very bestest friend in the whole wide world!  Denisa Fink!  She and I are exact opposites in looks but so much the same inside!  We've been thru a lot together over the 29 years we have known eachother, from sharing our hopes and dreams, dating the same guys, laughing our guts out together, to throwing water in eachother's faces (remember peppermill), to both of us marrying into families of all boys, to being with eachother in childbrth and having her throw up on me when she labored at home...fun times;), and lets not forget the endless phone calls about how awful or wonderful life is...she has seen the absolute best and WORST in me and still loves me just the same.  

Yesterday Bryce and I traveled to Redding to attend the baptism of her youngest. 

Jacob Fink was baptized by his big brother Phillip.  In fact he was baptized in the same baptismal font that his Dad was baptized in when he was 8.

Bryan(Dad) gave a talk on Baptism and Jacob came up and recited the 4th article of faith.

The Fink's are Giant people....literally...Bryan stands 6'8" and he is not the tallest in the family by far.   (And yes, he played basketball both in college and professionaly) 

Tyler, Phillip and Jacob....Ben is the oldest but he couldnt make it...bummer.  They are all such good looking boys.  They are my babies too.  Tyler stands 6'6" and still calls me Mama Lisa.

And here is Denisa with her one and only beautiful 13 year old daughter Marie...lucky!

Bryce and Marie 

After the baptism we went back to the house to enjoy some family fun time.

And here's where it all started ....Bob and Coleen Fink

The Fantastic Finks